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Post by AllenSmithee on Dec 23, 2008 11:50:16 GMT -5
Yeah, I knew a guy who knew a guy like that.
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Post by Yakra on Dec 23, 2008 14:57:59 GMT -5
Sexual is often used as a superlative when I say it Oh! ...I can have my extremely dense moments at times! :'D Please excuse! People are whacking off on the streets as we speak! Seriously. Read a newspaper or something. There's a lot of cases of public masturbation and nudity. Wimbledon!!!! Well... ok, I never saw anybody masturbating (thank god!) but it always amused me loads how each time, during some important match (preferably some semi final featuring Pete Sampras!) a streaker had to trot by, strutting about happily! XDDDD Ofcourse, its been years since I've followed the matches so no clue if this trend is still thriving!
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 15:05:15 GMT -5
There's nothing on wikipedia about that. I find the names "king of swing" and "pistol pete" highly amusing, however.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 16:18:35 GMT -5
Yet you say that tobacco should be even more taboo than they are now? That makes some sense, but little; according to you, things become MORE interesting if they're taboo -- so shouldn't tobacco be a common everyday thing to make it LESS interesting? Alcohol, Whacky Tobaccy, etc. -- shit, let's legalize murder! Once it becomes acceptable, it'll happen less! XD
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Post by AllenSmithee on Dec 23, 2008 16:30:15 GMT -5
Fixed Naw, it wasn't very clear! So, it is my job to apologize! SORRY MA'AM!~ *looks like Steiner from FFIX*
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 20:35:30 GMT -5
Then sex should be MORE taboo, by that context. Sex is and/or can be harmful, even if one should use condoms. I know this by experience, which I've shared around here on numerous occasions. Quoth the man who doesn't have an STD.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 20:53:19 GMT -5
I'd hope that does happen. I'm tired of seeing ch... wo... gi... fe... *people from both genders* give up on relationships based off of their sex lives.
I'm curious. What is your take on flirting? With my new world outlook, it's hard to see what it's all about. At first, I thought it was just a way to bond emotionally, and then I became jaded and thought it was just an "easy in" (the sack). But now, now I don't know what it is. Do I overthink the intent behind flattery?
// I know you said nudity, but I'd mentioned the whole sex-std connection based off of current times and how nudity leads to the sex-std connection, as opposed to "yeah, well wyrd's taboo theory says otherwise".
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Post by AllenSmithee on Dec 23, 2008 21:46:57 GMT -5
Yeah, but just showing something does change it from being taboo. Just because something is more acceptable doesn't make it any more right. I just find nudity a lot of things, especially degrading.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 22:42:48 GMT -5
The reason I'd asked is because I don't want people trying to get an "easy in" with me, or to think that I'm trying to get an "easy in" with them. Considering the circumstances which I've covered numerous times, you can understand somewhat why I would avoid sex. I don't want to transfer my disease, or gain new diseases. Instead, I just want a healthy companionship during my new bouts with dating. It's easy to blurt out that I have an STD in front of strangers, but I want to be careful about that while dating -- so as to *have a chance* at dating, not necessarily because I want to hide it. I'm strictly of the mindset now that I won't do the deed until marriage, but I can talk about the STD prior to talks about the future, should one future be eventually be decided.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 23:10:33 GMT -5
Yeah, you are right about that, no question. I'd just rather not be the butt of a sick joke, you know?
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Post by AllenSmithee on Dec 23, 2008 23:12:25 GMT -5
I think you only want so much nudity because you want sex. Just an offshoot theory of course
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 23, 2008 23:26:32 GMT -5
I don't actually intend to lead them on though. My intent is to become friends first, see if they're trustworthy, and then bring up the STD. I've confessed to one already (out of... a few contacts) and upfront, they know that I'm just looking to make friends in the first place. If it becomes romantic, then sweet! ...am I on the right track, or am I on the path to destruction, and have no chance to survive make my time? // The last time I was upfront about this in a relationship, the chick I was with stated that I "wasn't clear enough". You guys know me, I'm very anal about this shit! (puns not intended) >_>" Remind me to make sure whoever I'm dating isn't deaf -- Holly was deaf. (and yet bitched at me if I was too loud -- strange for someone with a hearing aid...) // Two more days, on Christmas night, it will have been a whole year since my last relationship ended. *shudders* // I'm a little scared, though, when people write "sex" under okcupid's "six things you couldn't live without". It's like, why don't their profiles just say "BANNED"?! ...
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 24, 2008 11:40:20 GMT -5
A lightweight? I'm only 21. XD If I stopped dating for eight years like you, I'd only have been... 13. XD
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 24, 2008 11:47:57 GMT -5
Hahaha... come to think of it, a year of singledom (let alone EIGHT) is a whole lot better than most people -- who only give it between hours, and months before their next relationship. I practically drink everyone under the table! ...that analogy really doesn't sound right when talking about dating. XD
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Post by AllenSmithee on Dec 24, 2008 11:51:15 GMT -5
If you hadn't noticed there is one part that is always in it That is my name! I was joking when I said that though. And I got nothing against what you think so do not worry.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 24, 2008 12:11:30 GMT -5
Well, I never said that you were or weren't picky either way; and likewise, I consider myself cautious and picky in my own right. It's just now that I'm older, it makes a little more sense what I'm looking for in a relationship. I'm not of sound mind either, so it may be a little extra difficult for me. I'm looking for someone I can trust, who isn't going to back out if things don't go as planned. Someone who is honest no matter what, and follows simialar moral values to my own. I'm going to dig into the personalities, and well... if I find someone, great. If not, I'll at least be making friends; so that's great too. Physically, I MUST be able to say she's pretty, or cute, or something. If she isn't, then uhhh... you may as well bag her up and take her away. XD I just recently discovered my limits on the matter. // Weight is a non-issue. Emotional stability (to an extent -- I don't want a heartless bitch, but I don't want one that's going to constantly moan about how pathetic she thinks she looks either!) is a must. Someone with a sense of honestly, morality, and DIGNITY. // She can't smoke pot, do heroin, or any illegal substances. That's hard to find.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 24, 2008 18:51:38 GMT -5
I don't mind if she smokes, but I'm quitting (as per that $126 cigarette I linked to earlier), hopefully I will. If not, I'm not complaining. I don't mind if she drinks -- I just don't want a MEAN drunk. I want a happy drunk, like me! ^_^ I'm a happy drunk when I'm drunk.
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Post by AllenSmithee on Dec 24, 2008 21:39:09 GMT -5
I'm a happy drunk when I'm not drunk. AFAIK. Never drank Very jokings! I dunno, about my taste much! I mean, I'm very particular but it is hard to put it into words. I do not like fake or whatever, and yeah, no drugs. I do know who I like, and maybe I'll be able to go on a sexy sexy date night booyah sexy ladies! Yeah, y'all know what I mean. CHECK IT. WICKY WICKY WOW. D : D
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 25, 2008 1:04:46 GMT -5
You'll probably be a lady killer growing up, and you'll bury them at Allen Smithee's Graveyard.
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Post by Ascended Mermaid on Dec 26, 2008 4:23:31 GMT -5
" The dating site is officially the scariest site I've been to. I'm definately not looking for someone who is nine years older and strongly (seemingly) dependant and obsessed with relationships in general. I have so many chills going up and down my spine right now. Am I being too judgmental? // The fact that she writes hardly anything about herself outside of being accurate with firearms (yikes), and that she'd favorited me without an introduction or anything first, kindof strikes me as impulsive, stalkerish and scary.
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