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Post by Zeithri on Aug 2, 2012 14:43:02 GMT -5
You could had solved it by saying one magical sentence;
"Prove it."
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Post by Trebia on Aug 2, 2012 15:27:19 GMT -5
Yeah, but, at that moment, I was very tired, and, to be frankly, I was tired of DA since a long time ago, and didn´t know if delete the page, or not.
So, this was the catalyst.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2012 21:29:05 GMT -5
Oh for sure... being called a virgin is insulting/hurtful to a virgin in most cases I can imagine. We live in a society where sex sells. I do believe there is a lot of pressure on young girls these days to lose their virginity with everything going on in the media, that movie a "40 Year Old Virgin" is a fine example. I know when I was young, I was a horny little bugger but I didn't lose my virginity until i was older, I started to get scared that I never would. I believe I had missed opportunities mainly because I was too afraid to go the whole distance and take a chance. It wasn't until I was older I finally started to get the action but I also learned it's meaningless unless you have it with someone you love, instead of the usual one night stands. I guess one night stands aren't all that bad if you're a hunk and getting action all the time  but unfortunately, finding girls is difficult for me. Shuffle back in time, I had my bragging rights where I could say I had sex with this really hot chick and my buddies would be impressed, but I start to think... what's the point if you can't be with that person? It's only a memory. I just want to be with someone I can spend the rest, if not most, of my life with. |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 5:36:29 GMT -5
There's a lot of pressure no matter gender to lose your virginity.
I found this quote to be appropiate;
"A guy regrets not having sex,
A girl regrets having sex."
There is truth to it but however it's also increadible narrowminded since I know guys regret bad partners as well. Without going into any history lesson, I'll just say that it was very destructive for me for many years since people tended to avoid me and because I am not an outgoing person which is what everyone wants I stayed single for years and those I did get as partners just broke my heart and left me in the dirt. It wasn't until I was older that I got to have sex and it saved my life because I felt extreamly unwanted by the world and were just about ready to finish myself off, i.e. kill myself.
So for me, it was a lifesaver.
Perhaps irony it is that despite that I grew up with sex constantly on my mind, I don't particulary like it very much. Too sticky, icky. So I prefer cuddles, I love cuddles. But hey, sex is fun, even though sticky icky.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2012 7:17:50 GMT -5
After awhile, I found I was like that too lol... I just like it simple where I can feel her body rubbing against mine and being able to kiss her is like... amazing feeling. I don't try to emulate all these positions I see off porn films, just simple missionary is really something. I know when I'm doing the girl, I'll make sure she is okay but most just want the pounding anyway But yeah. I'm boring like that. Missionary. |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 7:27:17 GMT -5
Yeah.. YOU ARE BORING! Like seriously, what's wrong with some living candles, blindfold and lightly tied hands? |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2012 7:45:57 GMT -5
Zeithri made my day |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 8:40:27 GMT -5
I tend to have that effect on people  But really; Learning each others bodies, exploring every inch, playing with their mind, stroking their erogenous zones or licking or kissing.. It's all good and fun as sex is suppose to be! It just blows my mind that so many people today are bad at sex despite that they have it with like a billion +1 people and brag about it like, why don't they bother learning how to properly satisfy their partner? I don't get it since those people usually talk about sex like it's the only thing that matters in the world and then they SUCK at it? |
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Post by Trebia on Aug 3, 2012 12:04:23 GMT -5
Well, being call Virgin to me, it´s not an insult, because I am(I know it´s hard to believe it at my age, but yeah).
I´d never had an interest on sex, really.
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 12:12:10 GMT -5
No, it's not hard to believe. Some people value waiting, some people just can't get it, and some people claim they're asexual. I have talked with a lot of people of varying ages whom been virgins and some have been fine with it and others have not been fine with it. It all depends on the person. PS. Growing up, I had almost an too big of an interest in sex - which is why I am damn good and awesome. |
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Post by Trebia on Aug 3, 2012 12:18:21 GMT -5
I have 28 years old, but I tell you, not interest. XDDD Yeah, but there are very few people. When I say it, everyone looks at me like this:  Well, time to write the fanfic, and draw.  I´m making fancharacters of Sonic and BH, it´s funny. XD I´m planning on to do some draw of Ys, too. |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 12:27:16 GMT -5
Yeah, but there are very few people. when I say it, everyone looks at me like this: People used to look at me like that back when I was 18 and virgin. Along with some false pitying like " Oh it's so good that you are still a virgin, that is so pretty" followed by " I'm going to go fu- my lover now!". People are jerks!  Well, time to write the fanfic, and draw. I´m making fancharacters of Sonic and BH, it´s funny. XD I´m planning on to do some draw of Ys, too. BH? Is that the robotic bunny? Because I like her. Never been a fan of Sonic but when I was young, I had a crush on Tails. I also thought Tails were a girl but that's a different story Also this was awesome because it was dystopian cyberpunk ^_^ There's a criminal shortage of my favorite character in terms of fanart of Ys.. Dark Fact. There are more fanart of Dhaos than there is of Dark Fact. Draw Dark Fact. - stares at with serious eyes - |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2012 13:03:19 GMT -5
I'm sure that's probably how it is for most guys... I know sex was on my mind all the time and I just wanted to bone. I find myself now getting a lot of action, especially from young girls, guess they must find me attractive and trust me but it's well worth it because i take care of them as best as I can on the the bed. Like i said, I'm boring I just like the basic missionary, feeling our bodies rubbing against each other, intimate kissing, couldn't ask for anything more, girl on top is hot too. It's a good feeling. |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 14:23:05 GMT -5
Trust you on being attractive or trust you in that young girls are easily decieved into thinking that older is more mature or that they're getting release for their various daddy issues? Yes I went there Line confuses me. Are you agreeing with me in that most people - in this definition - guys suck at sex, or are you saying something else? And as I said;
You make yourself sound soo boring!
Spice it up!
There are two kinds of guys;
1. The sucky ones.
2. The boring ones.
Don't be either of those because those suck.
The important part about sex isn't to finish, it's to have fun but for most people, they just use it for that minutable-release and then go do something else or they just use it for lolrecreation and otherwise treat it as something not to do.
Sure, plain vanilla is fine and good but how fun is it? In the long run. No, nonono Link, you need to spice things up in the bedroom! More positions, tickling even can be fun in moderation! As I said earlier, living lights, blindfold and light bondage of hands and just playing with your lovers imagination, forcing him/her to rely on their other senses than sight. Massage also, which reminds me, I need to pick up that massage candle/oil combo (a candle that when it burns out, becomes massage oil).
Be creative and have fun! ;o
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2012 17:14:14 GMT -5
or trust you in that young girls are easily decieved into thinking that older is more mature or that they're getting release for their various daddy issues? Yes I went there [/spoiler][/quote] That one It's starting to sound like you critique sex too much in my opinion. Sex is sex, just enjoy it and let it flow. If the girl isn't satisfied, she'll make sure next time |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 17:27:13 GMT -5
or trust you in that young girls are easily decieved into thinking that older is more mature or that they're getting release for their various daddy issues? Yes I went there [/spoiler][/quote] That one It's starting to sound like you critique sex too much in my opinion. Sex is sex, just enjoy it and let it flow. If the girl isn't satisfied, she'll make sure next time [/quote] Yes, I do but there's a reason for that. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2012 18:03:25 GMT -5
Like I had this fetish of sticking my finger in a girls bum and they seem to enjoy it when I finger them. Just saying, maybe too much info |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 18:11:15 GMT -5
Out of hygien reasons, you should never do that.
Out of pleasure reasons, everyone are different!
My reasons is that simply people don't seem to care as long as they get release. But hey, I'm a cancer, a lover, someone who gains a something of a deep-rooted spiritual bond with the one I love. And from an very young age up to an older age, I spent many many years studying sex through anything I could aquire (informative, resources, porn, other people's experiences) all in all just so I could ensure that I'd be a fantastic lover.
It's almost as if I should open a dojo and teach Ecchi-dõ.
My god... I could get rich!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2012 18:16:17 GMT -5
I don't care I'm dirty/kinky like that. If she is uncomfortable with it I will however. But every girl so far, wink wink. what ever pleasures. |
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Post by Zeithri on Aug 3, 2012 18:29:38 GMT -5
A few posts ago you said you were boring, now you're kinky?
Make up your mind!
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but unfortunately, finding girls is difficult for me.
